Sunday, November 17, 2013

Emergency Plea for Tiffany from Guadalupe Partners! Many ways to help!

Emergency Plea                                                                            November 14, 2013
From Guadalupe Partners
Edmund at 734 709 4096

A sidewalk counselor called Alicia yesterday during the morning hours when she was in class.  She wasn’t even aware that her phone was ringing, but one of her students—probably remembering how important those phone calls sometimes can be—actually answered the phone for her.  When Alicia took the call, the sidewalk counselor told her that he was at that moment in front of Summit and that a woman intending to make an abortion appointment was with him.  He asked Alicia to talk to her.  Alicia quieted her class, spoke to the woman for a few minutes and actually arranged for the woman to go for an ultrasound appointment later that morning.  She also promised that we would bring a delivery of groceries for her and her eight children that very evening.

That evening, as I saw where the GPS was leading me, I was a bit uneasy.  It was not the worst area of Detroit, but certainly not one of the better ones either.  When we pulled on to Tiffany’s street, I saw what I expected—the collapsed front porches and boarded windows.  One of the older sons immediately came out of the house to greet us, though, which was reassuring. He led us to a side door and as I entered the first thing to catch my attention was a large hole in the wall.  Entering the living area, I saw only two or three pieces of unusable furniture, buried under boxes, clothes, bags.  I saw more holes, in walls and in the ceiling; the dining area was empty except for a refrigerator, which obviously should have been in the kitchen, but I saw that the kitchen was—well, there was no kitchen.  What had been a kitchen was gutted.  The floor was rough plywood; there was no stove, no lower cabinets, no sink.  I then learned that in fact there was no water supply anywhere in the house. No washing machine, no tub sinks, no bathroom, no shower, no sink—nothing.  When I was upstairs and passed the bathroom door, the smell told me that the family still made use of the toilet…. Bucket flushing,  I guess. What else can they do?

As for Tiffany, she was very glad to see us and very proud of the ultrasound images that had been taken that day.  When the wand was placed on her womb and the image came into view, she and the technician were surprised to see a hand waving at them.  And one of the images clearly features that waving hand, expressing the joy of the child whose life only a few hours earlier had been threatened, but who now was rescued. 

Tiffany’s situation is similar to that of many other Detroit mothers.  There is no husband to help her; she lives dependent on the state.  She fears she will never be able to find work because a few years ago, she was, in her words, “in the wrong place at the wrong time.”  Lifting her sleeve she showed me a disfigured left arm, the result of a gunshot wound.

While her situation, then, in its basic outline is similar to many others, there are yet a few key differences.  She has more children than most others and her housing is worse than most others.  She, however, is the one who didn’t even go into the abortion mill.  She is the one who immediately recognized that the action she had considered would have been a tragedy.  She is the one whose joy and gratitude for the few groceries and clothes we brought for her family were genuine.

Therefore, before Christmas we would like to establish a decent living environment for Tiffany and her children.  Right now we are moving to have the water service to the house re-established. (Currently she is being held responsible for water usage which occurred before she even moved into the house.) Meanwhile, we would like to bring basic furnishings into the bedrooms—bunk beds and dressers.  The next step will be to bring a stove into the house, so that she will no longer have to cook for eight children from a two-burner hotplate on the floor and a deep fryer.  Finally, after water service is renewed, we will hire a worker to install a sink and replace the cracked bathtub, leaks from which brought down part of the ceiling in the living room.

Every now and then we meet a mother or a couple with desperate needs, and you have always responded generously.  We are praying and hoping that you will come through again with the following items:

Three bunk beds
An electric stove
Dressers
Dining room table and chairs

And, if anyone has done any remodeling, perhaps a kitchen sink and countertops.


Please reach us through our website or call me, Edmund, at 734 709 4096.


Thank you!

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